Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Lectio Divina: A Beginner’s Guide to Sacred Reading


Ever feel like you’re reading the Bible but missing the heart of it? Like you’re skimming the surface of something deep and sacred, but the meaning just won’t quite break through?

Or, have you always assumed that the words of Scripture are to be taken more-or-less at face value? "It says what it says," and what's important is that we know what it says (and, maybe, also what it means)?

Welcome to Lectio Divina — Latin for “divine reading.” It’s an ancient practice with roots in early Christian monasticism, and it’s not about study or information. It’s about transformation. It’s reading the Bible not just for God, but with God.

Think of it less like analyzing a textbook and more like sitting across from a beloved friend, letting their words wash over you, speak to you, stir something in you.

You don’t need a theology degree. You don’t need to be a monk (though go ahead and wear a robe if it helps). All you need is a few quiet minutes and an open heart.


What Is Lectio Divina?

Lectio Divina is a contemplative way of engaging Scripture — a slow, prayerful practice that helps you move from reading words on a page to receiving a word from God.

It’s typically broken into four movements (and don’t worry — you don’t have to be perfect at any of them to benefit):
1. Lectio (Read)
2. Meditatio (Reflect)
3. Oratio (Respond)
4. Contemplatio (Rest)

Some people add a fifth: Actio (Act) — because God’s Word doesn’t just live in your heart; it wants to come alive in your life.

Let’s walk through it.


Step-by-Step: How to Practice Lectio Divina

Step 1: Lectio (Read)

Choose a short passage of Scripture. Just a few verses is plenty — maybe from the Psalms, the Gospels, or a favorite epistle.

Read it slowly.
Then read it again.
And maybe again.

What word or phrase shimmers? What catches your attention or "jumps" off the page — even if you don’t know why?

You’re not trying to study it. You’re listening with the ear of your heart.


Step 2: Meditatio (Reflect)

Sit with that word or phrase. Roll it around in your mind and heart. Why is this standing out to you? Does it connect with something going on in your life? Does it stir an emotion? A question? A longing?

Let it speak — and don’t rush the silence. God often speaks not in noise, but in nudges. 


Step 3: Oratio (Respond)

Now, talk to God about what you’re noticing. Your prayer doesn’t need to be fancy. Just honest. Thank God. Ask questions. Share your confusion. Or your hope. Or your pain. God isn’t grading your grammar. God is delighting in your voice.


Step 4: Contemplatio (Rest)

Put away the words. Let yourself rest in God’s presence. No pressure. No agenda. Just be. This is about communion, not productivity.

Let yourself be loved. Let the silence hold you. If your mind wanders, gently return. If nothing dramatic happens, that’s okay: you’re soaking in grace.



(Bonus) Step 5: Actio (Act)

As you return to the day, is there something this passage is inviting you to do? Someone to forgive? A word to speak? A pattern to shift?

Lectio Divina doesn’t end when you close the Bible — it flows into how you live.



A Few Practical Tips

Start small. 5–15 minutes is plenty.
Use a journal. Writing can help you notice patterns and process your prayer.
Try different translations. Sometimes new wording brings fresh insight.
Be gentle with yourself. Distraction is normal. This is not about “doing it right.”
Return often. The more you practice, the deeper the well becomes.


A Sample Passage to Try

Ready to give it a go? Try this one:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
– Matthew 11:28

Read it.
Reflect on it.
Respond in prayer.
Rest in the stillness.
Then, maybe ask: How can I live this invitation today?


Final Thoughts

In a noisy world, Lectio Divina is a sacred pause. It’s not magic, but it is mysterious. It’s a way of holding space — not to read about God, but to be read by God.

It’s not about getting through the Bible. It’s about letting the Bible get through to you.

And the beautiful thing? The Word is already near you. As the book of Deuteronomy puts it: “It’s in your mouth and in your heart, waiting for you to do it" (Deut. 30:14).

So go ahead.
Open the Book.
Open your heart.
And listen.

How to Meditate (without Moving to a Monastery)

 Meditation / Centering Prayer

Let’s be honest. The word "meditation" can be a little intimidating.

Maybe you imagine a bald monk in flowing robes sitting perfectly still on a mountaintop, blissfully detached from the world while you’re just trying not to check your phone during dinner. Or maybe you’ve tried to meditate before, but your brain had other plans — like reminding you about that awkward thing you said in 7th grade. Sound familiar?

Here’s the good news: meditation isn’t about emptying your mind or escaping your life. It’s about learning to be more present in it. And it’s way simpler than you think. (Caveat: I think of it like chess: easy to learn, but difficult to master — and, I assure you, I am a master of neither!)

A statue of Jesus meditating like the Buddha

At its heart, meditation is the practice of paying attention — intentionally, gently, and without judgment. It’s like strength training for your mind and soul. You’re teaching your mind to notice, return, and rest — again and again.

You don’t need fancy equipment, special music, or incense made from Himalayan yak herbs. You just need a little time, a little curiosity, and a willingness to sit still (or not — we’ll get to that).


Step-by-Step: How to Meditate for Beginners

Let’s take the mystery out of it. Here’s a basic practice you can try today, no mountaintop required:


Step 1: Find Your Spot

Choose a quiet-ish place where you won’t be interrupted for a few minutes. Sit on a chair, couch, floor, bed — wherever you’re comfortable. You can sit cross-legged or with feet flat on the floor. Keep your back straight but relaxed, like a string’s pulling the top of your head up gently.


 Step 2: Set a Timer (≤ 5 Minutes)

Start small. Use a timer or an app like Insight Timer, Headspace, or Calm — or just the one on your phone. Don’t aim for 30 minutes your first go. Aim for five, and be gentle with yourself if you find that even five minutes is a challenge. Think snack-sized serenity, not Thanksgiving feast!


 Step 3: Notice Your Breath

Close your eyes (if you’re comfortable). Now, simply pay attention to your breathing. Inhale. Exhale. Feel the air move in and out of your nose, your chest rise and fall. Don’t change anything — just notice.


Step 4: Your Mind Will Wander — That’s Normal

It’ll happen. Your brain will suddenly remember your grocery list, that text you forgot to send, or the plot of a random episode of Friends. That’s okay. The moment you notice you’re distracted is the magic moment. That’s the rep. Gently guide your attention back to your breath, like leading a puppy back to its bed. No shame. No scolding. Just return.


Step 5: When the Timer Dings, Just Pause

Before jumping up, take a moment. Notice how you feel. Don’t judge it — just observe. Then carry on with your day, maybe just a tiny bit more grounded and less anxious.


Tips to Keep It Real

  • Be consistent, not perfect. Even one or two minutes a day adds up.
  • Try different techniques (there are several). Breath-focused, body scan, mantra, loving-kindness — there’s no “right” one.
  • Some days will feel amazing. Others will feel like a mental stampede. Keep going.
  • Your mind won’t become silent overnight. That’s not the goal. The goal is presence, not perfection.


But Why Bother?

Why sit in silence when the world is loud and your to-do list is screaming? Short answer: that's why.

Because meditation helps you:

  • Lower stress and anxiety
  • Improve focus and emotional resilience
  • Sleep better
  • Feel more connected — to yourself, others, and life itself

It’s not an escape from reality. It’s training for showing up in it — awake, aware, and alive.


Final Word: Start Where You Are

You don’t have to be a Zen master. You just have to be willing. Willing to try, willing to fail, willing to try again. Meditation isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about becoming more fully yourself — less reactive, more rooted, more… well, your best you.

So take a breath. Set a timer. Start again tomorrow. The word is close to you. It’s in your breath. In your heart. Waiting for you to notice.

Friday, June 21, 2024

The Labyrinth


We all have a profound need to remember that we are spiritual beings. So much of our pain is caused by our lack of awareness of the divine presence within us and within one another. The labyrinth is an ancient mystical tool that can help us to grow spiritually, and explore our inner selves psychologically, connecting us with the depths of our souls and psyches so we can remember who we are and grow in understanding of our life's purpose or direction.

The celebrated psychotherapist C. G. Jung spent many years developing and studying the use of "archetypes" to aid patients in understanding their hidden desires, fears, personality traits, and prejudices — which he collectively called our "shadow." Our "shadow selves" are not necessarily bad parts of us; rather, they're the parts that we have suppressed either because we find them undesirable or because society has given us reason to believe they are unacceptable or unwelcome. Archetypes are symbols that help us (subconsciously) to categorize the world around us and help us to notice patterns of thought, behavior, and response.

The labyrinth is full of symbolism, and collectively represent an archetype of unity and wholeness. It is a sacred space, a wide and gracious path, that helps us to rediscover the depths of our souls, and connect our souls to one another and to the Divine.

Life's big, existential questions — Why am I here? What is my life's purpose? Why is this happening to me? — are spiritual questions. Science tells us what, and how, but it cannot tell us why. To seek an answer is to seek a spiritual path. That's precisely what the labyrinth is intended to represent: a sacred path.

Along that path, there are many twists and turns. Sometimes you will feel like you are very close to the answer, to your deepest self, to the Divine — any one of which may be represented by the center of the labyrinth —and other times farther away. Sometimes you move toward it, only for the path to swing in another direction. Any or all of those turns in the path (may) represent a turning point in our journeys. If we remain faithful to walking — to diligently continuing the journey, even when a twist in the path frustrates our search — we will be rewarded with reaching our destination. If we give up, we remain stuck in place on our path, unable (or unwilling) to make further progress.

Once you reach the center — whatever that symbolizes for you, be it the Divine presence, the answer to your quandary, or even the deepest point of your own psyche — you can remain there for a time but, of course, you can't stay there forever! When the seeker climbing a mountain to encounter the wisdom of a great guru reaches the summit, she can't reside with the guru forever. At some point, she must descend from the mountain in order to apply to her life the wisdom she has received. (Look! Another archetypical representation of the search for spiritual wisdom that the labyrinth represents!) And just as is the case when ascending the mountain for wisdom, the descent turns out to be the same path. In other words, we walk back out of the labyrinth the same way we walked in, following the same path in reverse until we return to the entrance (now the exit).

To summarize one potential experience with the labyrinth, imagine it this way. You have been feeling very anxious lately, and have realized that your behavior has become self-defeating. Why am I feeling and acting this way? you wonder. And so you enter the labyrinth with this question, seeking its answer. Along the path, your mind quieted by the experience of slowly being led by the path beneath your feet, it occurs to you that your anxiety has been a subconscious response to a trauma from your past — a bad relationship, or a loss, or a failure — that is being reactivated by your present circumstances. You begin to reflect on that previous trauma: what will it take to overcome this trauma? What needs to heal? Who needs to be forgiven (and is it you)? Upon reaching the center, perhaps you come to realize that you need to "let go" of something, some burden or some guilt or some anger. Whatever it is, you resolve to leave it in the center of the labyrinth. As you begin your return (your exodus, your descent), you feel lighter. You walk with purpose, with intention. You begin to reflect on how life can be different now, because you no longer carry your burden and your wound is healing. Upon exiting the labyrinth, you are now able to re-enter the world with renewed hope and live in it differently.


Thursday, June 20, 2024

SBNR FAQ

 What do you mean by "Spiritual but not religious?"

"Spiritual but not religious" (SBNR) is how a quickly-increasing segment of the world identifies itself when asked about "religious affiliation." By using this phrase, someone might be indicating that:

  • they've never been a church-goer, but they believe in God. Or, 
  • that they're still church participants, but they're going through a process of "deconstruction" due to questions, contradictory evidence, church politics, disillusionment with leadership, narrow-mindedness, doctrinal assertions that don't hold up, religious/spiritual trauma, etc. Or,
  • that they used to go to church, but they have since walked away. Nevertheless, they still have faith in the Divine, just not the church. Or,
  • that they were not raised within any religious tradition, but they feel a spiritual longing for Divine encounter and fellowship that they may or may not know how to fulfill.

What can I expect to experience at "SNBR?"
At these events, you will have the opportunity to learn about and experience a variety of spiritual practices in a quiet, peaceful setting, facilitated by a certified Spiritual Director/Companion and member of Spiritual Directors International. The hours are "open," meaning that there is no specific time commitment — you can come and go as you please during open hours. Your spiritual journey is unique to you, and no one knows better what you need than you do.


Each SBNR event will include a large labyrinth (like the one pictured above) that you can use for contemplative walking and prayer. There may be soft, contemplative music playing in the background to set the mood and help quiet the mind for meditation. Other available practices may include (on a rotating basis) journalling, prayer beads, mandala drawing/coloring, candle lighting, mindfulness activities, art contemplation, and others. Rev. Camlin, our spiritual director/companion who is also trained by Veriditas to serve as a labyrinth facilitator, will provide instruction for anyone who has never used a labyrinth (or encountered any of the other activities) before. 


What is the cost to participate in SBNR?
There is no cost. All needed materials will be provided free of charge. A donation basket will be available for those who feel so inclined, but there is no obligation. Occasionally, there may be certain items, such as published books on subjects related to spirituality, for sale to those who have an interest in learning in this way.


Is this a Christian thing?
No. Spirituality (the desire for connection or relationship with the Divine and with the world around us) is not "contained" by any religious tradition. Whether we are Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Sikh, or none of the above, humans are "wired" for such spiritual connection. And so, as we've emphasized, one's "religion" is beside the point.

So this is not a "Christian thing," but it is still for you if you are Christian.


Is this some kind of evangelical trap?


No. This isn't about "religion," so it's not about trying to convince any one of anything or an attempt to "convert" anybody. We want SBNR to a safe space for people to explore spiritual exercises that may help them along their personal spiritual journeys, and nothing more.